Episode 97 – The Version of You That Got Left Behind
Growth is usually framed as something purely positive, but real growth comes with losses too. In this episode, I talk about the version of you that gets left behind as you evolve, even when the change is healthy. Sometimes you outgrow old habits, old motivations, old dreams, and even certain people, not because anyone did something wrong, but because life keeps moving and you do too.
I reflect on how relationships shift over time, how your “why” changes as you reach certain milestones, and why it can feel unsettling when the things that once motivated you no longer hit the same. I also talk about a kind of grief that doesn’t get mentioned enough, the quiet grief of losing familiarity, losing old versions of yourself, and losing people who were once part of your everyday world.
We also get into self sabotage, how the brain tries to keep you safe by pulling you back toward comfort, and why remembering your beginnings matters if you want to keep your voice and stay genuine. Because the goal is not to erase who you were. The goal is to honor what that version of you did for you, and still keep walking forward.
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